[This post originally appeared on the3six5.posterous.com]
I think a lot on decisionmaking, so today I asked my Twitter friends what they think of as the best decision they've made in the last five years. Interested primarily in comparing this to decisions made in the last five days I was surprised when someone asked the same of me, but I managed to come up with "deciding to floss every day" as my response.
Decisionmaking is primarily about "want," and flossing every day exemplifies the idea that the word "want" is such a ridiculously lacking term to express the phenomenon for which it has been charged to capture. This is primarily because "want" expresses nothing with respect to time; a critical shortcoming, because on a short enough timeline, nobody "wants" anything.
In the moments leading up to the flossing is it really something I "want" to do? Not particularly. I find it annoyingly time-consuming.
What I "want" is a certain feeling - it comes along with recognizing that following through on decisions is an unexplainably easy and incredibly rewarding thing to do. Well it is if you're looking in retrospect, anyway - it's a future "want."
This is one of the best decisions I've made because I can apply it to everything that seems uncomfortable in the present.
It's why I woke up immediately to my alarm this morning after (very) minimal sleep, stood right up and got on with the day. There's always that part of me that doesn't "want" to get up, but there's a more clever part of me that knows my RSS reader is as good as coffee and once I fire it up I'll have forgotten the feeling altogether. I read the latest lesswrong.org post everyday and today's was dreadfully dense - as always - but after fighting that short-term "want" I walked away with a piece of something intelligent - as always.
On a short enough timeline most worthwhile things seem unnecessary, uncomfortable, ridiculous, like wastes of time/effort. The bad news is that feeling never goes away; we're naturally inclined to see the world in short moment-to-moment timelines.
The good news is that shifting one's perspective is completely in our control, and entirely worth it. Ask Walter Michel.
[img via Oh, The Temptation]